getting released is a gift

To PNMs. It may be hard but getting released from a house early is a gift. It allows you to spend your energy learning about and loving the house that will become your home. You will only get to choose from between three houses in the end so the sooner that the wrong houses are off of your card the better for really giving the others a chance. Those with full cards will spend the week in another blur of parties and it becomes very confusing. No matter how many parties they go to, fifteen of those houses will be gone by pref. Many that they fell in love with and carried for several rounds. It gets harder after you have spent more time falling in love with the houses. Open house rounds will be a blur of blind dates. You may have stalked us on social media but you don't know us and we don't know you. It really is us, not you. As in we had to make drastic cuts, and it was not personal. We have to let great ones get away but we also love our panhellenic sisters and know you will find an awesome fit somewhere else. It didn't work out and you move along before you have fallen hard. That is a gift.

Concentrate on the houses that wanted to get to know you more. In the end everyone can only open a bid from one. The sooner you are focused on finding the "One" instead of playing the field, the better rush becomes and you will end up in a much better matched house where you will love.