advice needed
by: Help
I've started to realize that I would be so much happier here if I liked the girls in my sorority. There are a few girls that I really like but other than that I can't really relate to a lot of girls in my house and to be honest I really don't respect them. I can't see myself becoming best friends with any of them. I don't know what to do. I know if I drop I'm going to be even more miserable in the dorms, but then I could possibly rush next year. But then again it'll be weird because I'll be a sophomore and I'll have to become friends with all the incoming freshman. I'm in a really tough
situation. I really don't want to drop, but I wish I was in a different sorority. Any advice would really help.
Comment#2 by: Hi
Correct me if I'm wrong but I'm pretty sure you wouldn't actually be allowed to rush next year if you wanted to. Maybe cob after formal recruitment but I thought there was a rule against this.
Regardless, it's been a month. I went through a solid three months where I felt like I wasn't going to be friends with anyone in my house as a freshman and In hindsight I was really wrong. There's always girls that you can click with, even if it's just one or two. And don't limit yourself to your pledge class. One of my best friends is two years older than me, some of my other best friends are in the grade below me. Sororities are just too big for you to not be able to make genuine friends with anyone. I am really sorry you feel this way though, that sucks. But you're not alone and I wouldn't give up hope if I were you..
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