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Amen sista !! Preach

It's only insecure girls that allow it. No matter which house you are in.

I'm in a bottom house and one of our PNM this year was the home coming queen of her School, on the soccer team and NHS. Beautiful smart girls in all our houses.

I have met confident girls that were Beautiful and in the top houses and extremely insecure girls. I have met beautiful confident girls in middle and bottom houses as well as not so confident. Guys prey on Weak women unfortunately

. it saddens me to see any girl allow this to happen top middle or bottom.

Since the beginning of time there have been "those type of girls"
It appears to be a large acceptance from both guys and girls. The change must come from both and yes the old adage applies teach people how to treat you. However I feel as previous posters do the Frat guys are in a mob mentality I do agree with that.