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Rankings PNM POV

by: PNM24

This have been an amazing experience. After going through 1.5 rounds and being a non-legacy, out-of-state pnm:
KD/Phi Mu/ADPi
Tri Delt/DZ
Chi O/AOII/Zeta
SK/DG/AXO/KKG
Pi Phi/AGD

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#1  by: clarify   
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If this really is a pnm, is this your personal ranking of how you like the chapters or the vibe you feel the chapters give off/how others pnms perceive the chapters?

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by: PNM24Aug 15, 2024 7:30:41 PM

It is a mix of everything. The vibe I get when in the houses, conversations I’m having with other pnms, rankings here and what I see on social media. I might not be a good fit for PhiMu, KD and ADPi but I see why they are top tier. However in the mid tiers, I was surprised to see some ranked so low and some overrated.

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by: clarifyAug 15, 2024 7:45:05 PM

That makes sense. I was just curious what basing off of. Thanks :)

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#2  by: Out of State   
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I am also out of state! My take:
KD/DZ/ADPI
TriDelt/PhiMu
Chi O/AOII/Zeta
DG/SK/KKG/AXO
PiPhi/AGD

Mine is based solely on the vibe I got from the houses. Some seem uninterested in out of state girls.

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by: out of state 2Aug 15, 2024 7:51:22 PM

I agree some chapters seem a little disinterested with me being from out of state. My personal preference does not align with what people on greekrank say is top at all

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by: This Aug 15, 2024 9:18:31 PM

This

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by: ExactlyAug 16, 2024 6:01:19 AM

Honestly, I agree with this, although my personal preference would put KD off the top row. It seemed like they had their clicks from in state going through. I felt more welcomed from others.

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by: SameAug 16, 2024 9:53:48 AM

This was my experience as well. I agree with the KD comment as well. They were not as welcoming to me as ADPI, TriDelt, and DZ as an out of stater. This was just my experience.

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by: Chicago Aug 17, 2024 6:05:01 PM

As an OOS girl I have KD and Phi Mu as my final two. My mom told me rushing in the SEC is no joke and you need to make an effort. Resume, grades, letters of Rec and video have to be done . In my dorm floor we all shared our videos and I can tell you that I heard so many girls complaining that the top 2 houses didn’t call them back because they are from OOS… no it’s be because you didn’t put any work into recruitment. This is like a job interview the best one gets hired. I knew no one and I have these two options. Don’t be mad and blame the houses blame yourself for not putting in the work.

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by: lolAug 18, 2024 1:23:53 PM

people who say OOS vs instate doesn't matter, it totally does. as a top house alum, we go through all your socials and have the opportunity to pre rank you over the summer based on your social media and who knows you. if you're from let's say, indiana, and no active members know you, you're not getting any comments or remarks and therefore have a low prescore and are pretty much dropped before go greek round even starts.

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#3  by: Truth   
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There is a distinct difference how in state vs. out of state girls are treated by some houses. The so called top two seem to know who they are going to take before recruitment even begins. It seems like a lot of girls from the same high schools from what I can tell. This has been many of my group's perspective.

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#4  by: Cali   
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Me too! KD and Phi Mu didn’t seem interested in out of state girls
KD/Phi Mu
TriDelt/ADPi/AXO/DZ
Chi O/AOII/Zeta
DG/SK/KKG
PiPhi/AGD

By: Cali
by: UmmmAug 16, 2024 2:37:44 PM

Are you going through recruitment because you say KD and PhiMu didn't seem interested in oos girls yet you put them top? I can tell you as an oos girl, I would not put them top. AXO wouldn't be high on my list either. I did think ADPI and DZ made me felt heard and seen, as did Chi O.

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by: Question Aug 16, 2024 2:40:49 PM

Why did you say KD and Phi Mu aren’t interested in OOS, then put them top?

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by: PNM24Aug 16, 2024 3:37:08 PM

I definitely felt seen and heard in Chi O, DZ and AOII. Vibes were off in Zeta & AXO.

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by: UhhAug 16, 2024 5:47:39 PM

Then why did you put kd and phi mu at the top, and then put the houses that take the most out of state girls at the bottom?

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#5  by: Learned   
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One thing I have learned is that these rankings are so off. Being oos and literally knowing no one, I can say with confidence that PhiMu and KD are not tops in my opinion. That must be an instate perspective. I got a much better vibe from CHIO, DZ, and ADPI. Many oos girls I have met feel the same way. I just feel that some houses know who they want before recruitment even starts and don’t even try to make girls feel heard and noticed.

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by: YikesAug 17, 2024 2:04:22 PM

I feel sorry for girls who actually believed the ranks on this site and decided it was 2 or 3 certain houses or drop. My experience of who was top does not align with what this site says at all. The so called top two were anything but in my book. I felt so more valued in some of the other houses.

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by: lolAug 18, 2024 1:34:11 PM

if phi mu and kd aren't top to you, that's fine. but in frat perspective and overall perspective from people on campus, kd and phi mu are top tier.
if a girl walks up to a cute guy and says they're a skrappa, guys aren't gonna be as interested as a girl who walks up to them and is a phi mu. sorry but true.

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by: Responding to lolAug 19, 2024 9:01:40 AM

Re: comment by lol
If a guy is only interested in you because of what sorority you're in then is that really the guy you want? LOL

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by: GGSep 2, 2024 2:43:05 PM

To the girl talking about frat perspective? You are cra-cra. Most guys I know date DDD’s, Chi 0’s and ADPI’s. The ones that dated Phi Mu’s and KD’s broke up because there was too much “drama.”

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#6  by: Seriously   
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Going through recruitment I have learned a lot. I, too, am am OOS girl, and my rankings would be nothing like this site. In my opinion:
Top choices would be:
DZ, ADPI, ChiO
Next:
AOPII, TriDelt

These are the top five in my opinion. They were friendly and genuinely seemed interested in me. These houses had a good vibe, friendly and outgoing.

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#7  by: Great Experience   
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Recruitment has been an amazing experience. The biggest take away for me is that this site is very misleading. Maybe it is because, I too, am OOS, but there is no way that the three, PhiMu, KD, and AXO claim to be top are imo. They are not even on my radar. May of the OOS girls are extremely interested in ADPI and DZ from conversations I have had. ChiO and TriDelt are also being talked about. Maybe thosehouses that claim to be top are popular among instate girls, but I don't hear many OOS girls talking favorably about them.

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by: YepAug 17, 2024 1:17:59 PM

I could not agree more. This was exactly how I felt as well.

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by: For Sure Aug 18, 2024 4:48:24 PM

Top choices for every OOS girl I met were DZ, TriDelt and ADPI. Myself included.

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#8  by: Curious   
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Why the negative view of SK?

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by: utgirlAug 19, 2024 8:06:38 AM

Right? The girls there are nice, fun and there seems to be a strong sisterhood.

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#9  by: Seriously   
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Many OOS girls I met dropped because they were dropped by TriDelt, ADPI, and DZ. I felt they should have given some other houses a chance. There are nice girls in every house imo, but then again, I got the house I wanted.

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by: say it louder Aug 19, 2024 9:12:14 AM

I know there are girls who were released from recruitment, but every OOS girl I know and talked to who did not receive a bid chose to withdraw from recruitment after being dropped from some select houses rather than continue with the houses they had. I find it funny I keep seeing comments about how some houses lack an open mind to OOS girls, which yes is unfair, but then those same girls lacked an open mind with the chapters that DID invite them back. The hypocrisy and lack of awareness is kind of baffling

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by: Really Aug 19, 2024 9:29:17 AM

Hmm, are we honestly saying that girls don’t come in wanting KD/PHI MU/Tri Delt? That’s who they aim for

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by: LOLAug 19, 2024 9:34:02 AM

Ummm a LOT of OOS girls did not aim for KD or PhiMu. Many of us had zero connections so our aim was to go where we felt welcomed. They were definitely not it for many OOS girls. TriDelt had a better vibe and were far more interesting.

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by: To reallyAug 19, 2024 9:45:17 AM

Yes, that’s exactly what I am saying. When you’re OOS you really don’t know about any of the houses. You find out through recruitment. Many of us were not as impressed with you as you seem to be in yourself.

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#10  by: say it louder   
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I dont think either of these comments about being more open minded are saying that. It is okay to come in wanting a chapter and it is okay to be disappointed if do not get it, but I personally feel more pnms should have an open mind to other chapters instead of jumping ship when 3 out of the 13 (almost 14 chapters) dont extend an invite.

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