be yourself, pnms!

Are you bipolar or suffering from disassociative identity disorder? I ask because the first part of your post makes perfect sense in that it is important to find the right house for you.

Then, starting from "Sweet, fun, kind," you go on a bender that negates everything you said in the first part of your post!

Are you trying to say that every girl in KKG and Pi Phi is "Mean, arrogant, vain, back-stabbing, stupid, selfish and rude?" Are you implying that the OP is "mean and arrogant" because she may have fit in better with another house and is showing some humility by regretting not being true to herself? She didn't say she was pretending to be "sweet, fun, and kind"; she said she pretended to be more outgoing when I assume she is actually more introverted than her sorority sisters. Does that make her "mean, arrogant, vain, back-stabbing, stupid, selfish and rude?" NO!

True, you have singlehandedly insulted every girl in KKG, Pi Phi, and a few others by accusing them of being "mean, arrogant, vain, back-stabbing, stupid, selfish and rude," my fiancee being one of them. She is a kind and beautiful woman whom I love very much and she and her sisters don't deserve to be lumped into your judgement of them when you probably haven't taken the time to get to know them.

To "Lami," I'm sorry I hijacked your thread like this, but try to find some joy in the path you've chosen. I'm sure there are some positives within your group.

As for "True," perhaps you are the one who is "mean, arrogant, vain, back-stabbing, stupid, selfish and rude." It sure sounds like it to me.

It's interesting how people's poor reading comprehension, ADD, deep-seated insecurities, and anger issues come out on here sometimes. I hope you are getting therapy, medication, and academic support for your daily struggles and hallucinations. But you do have quite a knack for spin doctoring and propaganda, we'll give you that, so maybe your future lies in politics, where being unhinged could be a plus. Also, your lovely fiancee could do a lot better, JS.

To: To "True"...What I read is that "True" is saying that you can be a "top tier" girl in a "bottom tier" house and vice versa and that being in a "top tier" or "bottom tier" house doesn't determine what kind of girl you are so you shouldn't worry about trying to go "top tier" like the OP did but just worry about being a good person and find your home. I get that because so many pnm's worry that being in a certain house would give people a certain perception or stereotype, really good or really bad, but it's not true and there are all types in all the houses. I don't read anything insulting to any house and I think you overreacted.