ADPI is clearly bid promising

it is so unfair that pnms are being told they are getting a bid from alpha delta pi. I went there on Sunday and girls in my group have already been told that they are running home there ? I did not know that this is how the process worked. This Is so unfair. So if they did not tell me I am going to be running home to them... then why am I still being invited back. ? they told me I'm pretty and that my floral dress stood out from the other pnms. I went into delta Gamma, Delta delta delta, and kappa Dleta and they are not telling anybody that they already have a bid. Why would I want to join a chapter that pre- chosen there new class? Has any body had a superficial experience like this. I guess I am sjposssed to tell my rhogammas but I do not want to start a problem with rushing.