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high school popularity syndrome?

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So this post is going to be really intimate and personal but only because it’s an anonymous site. I’m not expecting that many of mature or kind comments, but who knows? I used to be the most popular girl in my high school. I won homecoming court every year (for my grade) and was homecoming queen and prom queen both. Obviously these don’t matter now because it was because I was well liked, guys drooled over me, and girls got along with me well because I am a nice person. Teachers liked me too because I was smart academically. I had it all, from friends to grades to looks to attention to fame. But now at USF, I am in a good sorority that’s considered top by people, and it bothers me because I’m not “that girl” anymore. The older sisters get way more attention and it’s like I’m just a follower now more than someone that people would follow. This makes me feel lowkly. Someone please suggest or advise what I should do to stop feeling this way.

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Get over yourself and realize there will always be someone prettier, smarter, and better than you.

Just be you, enjoy life and stop focusing on what other people see you as. You’ll live a much more content life if you stop worrying and thinking about all he silly things. Because yes, they are silly.

Sorry you feel that way though

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Hey girly-girl,
Seems like you were the big fish in a small pond! The person above me is right though- at USF, or really any university, there will always be someone smarter, better looking, more popular, etc. You have to sort of distort your view of yourself in a way that you’re still proud of yourself, but you’re not always out to one-up somebody. Real growth comes much easier when you can recognize your own areas that are in need of improvement!

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This is life in general. Once you get out of USF, you will find yourself even less relevant compared to the whole world. Work on yourself and be the best you can be. Popularity is an immature mindset

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