think before you speak

some of the stuff written on here by both pnms and current sorority sisters is literally disgusting for lack of a better word. it makes me sick to my stomach that girls will come on here and bash other pan women when the whole point is to EMPOWER one another. let everyone like whatever sorority they like and stop bashing if they aren’t “top tier” or the “prettiest” or WHATEVER. if you’re here for a popularity contest, you’re here for the wrong reasons and just remember that in 10 years no one will remember how “popular” your chapter was you’ll just either have those true genuine friends or you won’t beceause you’re in this for the wrong reason. think before you speak because some girls are really in love with their chapter and being bullied for that is by far the shallowest thing i’ve ever seen in my life. with that being said i hope everyone can find love and happiness within themselves and have a great bid day and a great experience in sorority life!!