dear pnms....

I know this week is hard for you all but you all need to really get off this website and think about why you are actually joining a sorority. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks about the organization that you may like and it doesn't matter what "tier" that organization is. Think about it this way: if you join an organization only on the fact that it is a top tier organization you won't enjoy your time and you will waste your money. Now if you join that organization because you truly love the women you have met and you can really BE YOURSELF around them then you will get so much out of the experience. No one is going to know what "tier" your sorority was 10 years from now, but what they will know is the amazing friendships that you still have around you, but you will only get those lifelong friendships if you are 100% honest with yourself during this process. I'm not trying to bash any organization at all, I just want PNMs to realize that going somewhere just because you think other people think it's cool isn't any way to start off your experience in Panhellenic. Best of luck to you all and I truly hope you find your home.