Changemaking Day

I know they told us not to judge or make any big decisions already but did anybody else get the feeling like AXO and PIPHi girls hate each other? I was getting really odd vibes from both chapters. I already was skeptical about joining and this makes me want to drop the process cause it seems so superficial already. One of the girls I talked to in PIPHI made me want to cry I felt so uneasy and she seemed like she didn’t want to be there either. She just came across as really rude and uninterested and another girl in my RC group said the same about them. Any advice?? I have friends in sororities at other schools and they love it so I wanted to give it a try but it isn’t what I expected and it’s only the first day