kappa bid???

So so not the way to approach rush...

Don't have your eyes on one sorority or you'll end up so disappointed! All of the chapters are so amazing and have so many different unique qualities. Be yourself: that is the best advice anyone could give you. If you pretend to be someone you're not just to get into a sorority you'll end up miserable. Go out to campus events, alcala bazaar, parties etc to meet girls in sororities but don't act like a creep because that can get you blacklisted... Good Luck! See you at rush in the spring ;)

How do you know that you want to be in Kappa? Have you even interacted with the girls to see if you'd even click w/ them? That's what rush is for, helping you figure out your place. You'll know if you actually want a Kappa bid when you actually meet the Kappa girls. Give everyone a chance, or you may end up heartbroken if they drop you.