if you joined and don't like it...

Make sure you're actually trying. A girl in my sorority who joined in fall decided that she doesn't like it and wants to go inactive or disaffiliate. She took on a position and went to every event but she still wasn't happy. She was bad at her position but she never asked for help and only did the bare minimum. When she was given multiple opportunities to express her feelings, she didn't take them. She was there, but she wasn't present. Keep just keep that in mind if you think maybe you're not in the right place