hiking in heels?

is Hiking in heels or rush coaching necessary? i’m freaking out, i’m scared bc I am OOS so the other girls have an advantage. I read some moms pay for their daughters to get training and coaching, should I have already done that? should I try now? I am in the process of getting recs for 4 of the houses but stressed. I am a legacy for one sorority and I know this sounds bad but I don’t really feel like i vibe with my moms legacy so should I just not say it? my aunt is an alum of another one I think I would fit better in, I don’t wanna screw up but i’m scared, i’m super scared.