note to pnms

I want to share this for those of you starting recruitment. Our houses have been preparing to meet you for almost a year, and we're excited that the first day is here. I wanted to also take this time to address something I've seen happen to a couple of my friends in hopes that you will have the best possible week and happy outcomes.

Some of you may go into recruitment thinking that the saddest thing will be not getting a bid to your favorite house. This is not true. The worst thing will not be exploring your options and potentially declining a possible bid because you've listen to simple-minded gossip. I've seen this previous years and often that decision leads to regret.

The people spreading simplistic and reductive view of different houses do not actually care about pnms. They don't care that if you ultimately reject the houses that want you that you may miss out on the joy of being asked to join a sorority and meeting people, leadership opportunities, fun parties, and fundraising for very important causes. My sincere hope for all PNMs is that you will not let gossiping fear mongers win and steal your joy!

This week is yours for the taking. Do not let anyone else (whether online gossips or girls on your hall or someone's mom from Richmond) take this experience from you. No one else should define your happiness! Go get 'em!