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by: starI think some girls do get coaches. There was an article in the New York Times in 2012 titled "Pledge Prep, Prepping Students for Sorority Rush". UVA was highlighted. I think the girls who do have coaches don't talk ever about it. I hate to say it but your friends are also your competition. There are only so many spots in each sorority and everyone wants to get in a good one. It's a weird, stressful time. Not so much if you're content if you're above playing the status game. Good luck!
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Girls shouldn't be allowed to get rush coaches. It completely takes away the virtue of "being yourself" and competing on that basis. If you get into a sorority for who you faked being rather than who you are, you shouldn't be in that sorority and will soon find out you are not that similar to your "sisters."
ISC should ban anyone who uses a coach.
by: MimiJan 5, 2019 2:33:53 PM
I mean this with the best of intentions, but I think we set ourselves up for a difficult and unhappy rush and result if we view recruitment as a competition. I know it can feel like that, but it might help to try to focus on finding a place where you feel most at home and most welcome. I totally agree with you that the goal should be to find a sorority with likeminded or uplifting members. Best wishes!
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#5 by: What's wrong with you?
Can you not dress yourself properly and make sociable conversation with others? Do you not know how to present yourself for making a favorable impression to show that you know how to be a polished, pleasant, and fun-loving young woman who would be an asset to a group of others who are like-minded? Please!
by: PleaseJan 4, 2019 8:56:45 PM
There is so much more to it than that and you know it. A lot of it is who you know, who you went to highs school with, do they like you, etc. Beauty counts too. Let’s be real.
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by: ^Jan 4, 2019 10:00:38 PM
Yes, but how is a coach going to impact who you know or where you went to high school or what you do on campus to meet people and get them to like you? Nothing. And you know it.
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by: FactNov 14, 2020 4:41:59 PM
Rush is absolutely a competition at UVA and if you’re not prepared you’re destined for failure. Maximize your chances and get a coach but tbh you’re too late for spring 2021
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by: YesNov 14, 2020 4:49:50 PM
by: WrongJan 5, 2019 4:59:46 PM
The message of this post is wrong. It tries to make the girls in those sororities feel as if they are less than. Again if anyone pays attention to crap on here you are crazy.
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by: What ? Jan 12, 2019 9:46:35 PM
by: PleaseJan 6, 2019 8:33:53 PM
Super, would you mind sharing approximately how much it cost for your rush outfits and accessories from RTR? It seems like a great idea! Hope you get into the house of your dreams :D
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by: ^Oct 24, 2020 12:17:20 AM
I had two coaches, my mom and my grandma
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