pnms if you're going to read anything, read this
by: 1234
When going into rush next spring, DO NOT PICK SORORITIES BASED ON "TIERS" ON THIS WEBSITE.
The thing with how sorority life, and even regular social interaction works, that if you belong in a bottom tier sorority, you usually end up in one. Just like how if you kind of were an outcast and introvert in high school, it reflected onto your social life. It's just about who you resonate with. You can't come to college thinking that you're all of a sudden going to be someone you wanted to be in high school because that's just not who you are. Ultimately, if you try to social climb, people will see through that. If you don't seem genuine during recruitment, it is likely you might get cut from a lot of houses. Yes, some people can catfish their way into "top" sororities but if all you care about is how popular you are and not about making true friendships, then you're just going to be unhappy with your decisions and people aren't going to end up even liking you in your sorority. So don't go for tiers, go for the people you like and who are similar to you because if you don't, chances are you won't end up fitting into your pledge class and will be excluded or even made fun of.
Comment#2by: Fax
This post is true though? If you're not yourself .during recruitment, you won't find the right home. Some people are introverted, others are extraverted, some like to have more nights in, others like to go and party more. That's just how people are and if you aren't who you are during recruitment because you're too worried about tiers to find people you actually like, then you won't be happy in the end because you're more concerned about how other people see you in your choice rather than finding friends. You really see it all the time. People get bids and then don't accept them just because it's not from a top sorority at uva and that's a really shallow way of looking at things because you might find that you're really happy in a middle or even bottom tier sorority
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by: kd
OP is right...certain sororities ARE perceived as better. If you try to social climb especially at UVA you might end up dropping. I know A LOT of girls that joined a sorority based on tier to try and be more "popular" or at least be PERCIEVED that way by people at UVA except they definitely did not end up fitting into their sorority.....whether it be because they didn't fit in because of their wealth or just their personality when those things started to show more
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