in four years it won't matter

Freshman ladies just remember,

You are beautiful regardless of your house. In four years it won't matter who was the most popular, who was the prettiest, what's going to matter is that you have solid friendships to lean on and you feel ready to take on whatever life has to through at you because the people around you helped you grow into a functioning and responsible adult. You're looking for a house that accepts you as you are and builds you up, not a house thatsays you aren't good enough as you are and attempts to change you into a reflection of themselves. If there is no productive value in what a house is asking you to do that is going to help make you a better person, don't do it. You're worth more than people will try to make you feel. Rant over.