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I am an out-of-state student and joined what most would consider to be a "top" house at KU. I quickly discovered that all of the girls in my pledge class were from the same area and were already good friends from high school as well as friends with the current girls in the house. I soon began to feel very not included and later dropped.

I'm not saying that didn't make them any less wonderful girls, they were still very nice and intelligent and I remain acquaintances with most of them. It is innate human nature to want to spend time with people you are comfortable with. I would probably have done the same thing in their position!

I just wanted to post to remind you that if you do end up joining a "top" house, more power to you! Just know that it will take a lot of effort and people-skills to really get into that group. I didn't have a lot of time to really bond with the girls, so make sure you have that time!

(Obviously, I only joined one house and just because one "top" house was like that doesn't mean they all are. This is just my personal experience!)

Finally, THE TIERS DO NOT MATTER. Seriously. My best friend ended up joining a "bottom" tier sorority and guess what? BOYS STILL HANG OUT WITH HER. Just because you are a "so and so" doesn't mean they are going to stop trying to get in your pants. If they think you're cute, they think you're cute. Bottom line. Just don't worry about it, enjoy recruitment and don't go in with any preconceived notions.

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move on people. move on.

By: christ
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Honey. You need a hobby. Please, please stop making yourself look like a fool by continually talking about this.

By: @yesican
by: gheez   

Gphi, you need to open up your eyes and realize there is an entire world out there. You're only hurting yourselves by refusing to socialize outside your clique. You have some serious growing up to do.

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by: obsessed   

Please calm down and stop being so obsessed with G Phi. You're on here every other comment arguing with everyone else at KU. Realize you have a problem and get help.

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Says the bullies on greekrank lol

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by: mn   

I have plenty of friends thank you.
I am MORE than happy with my house thank you.
I am no where near bitter for any reason.
I get along very well with everyone, I just don't like snobby conceited stuck up girls who think they're better than everyone.
I don't care who hangs out with whom BUT if you're a Greek at a huge university like KU you should also know how to socialize with everyone. If you can't do this, you can't call yourself a top house.
I'm sure everyone else except for maybe gphi and sigep agree.
Sorry you are so narrow minded and unsociable I'm sure you have no friends except sigep and no one cares about you or your friends, or your favorite frat, really NO ONE CARES. Just stop imagining you are a top house.

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by: above   

I don't think it's quite accurate to say no one cares. You care. You're on here all the time bashing girls you don't like. That's weird. If you don't care about them you'd be out with some of the friends you claim to have doing something more fun than bashing other women.

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This is so true. No one ever said they cared about gphi and sigep being obsessed with each other, what point is trying to be made is stop saying you're a top house. Top houses at KU are very social and active and mingle with everyone. You can't be a top house if you only hang out with one frat.. YOU ARE NOT A TOP HOUSE.

By: actually
by: above   

You don't decide how other people rank houses. If they think other things are more important than which guys some of the girls hang out with, then that's for them to decide.

You can be a top house if you take top girls. You can be a top house if you make great grades or do well in campus activities, if you have campus leaders in your house, if your girls are recognized as generally pretty, if you're extremely involved, if you have a nice house, etc. There are LOTS of things that are important in a top house. Mingling is just one.

Besides, just so you'll know. There are lots of G Phis and Sig Eps that hang out with other people. You just don't know them so you're generalizing. You don't even let facts (see #16 above) get in your way. Maybe you wouldn't think this was SUCH A BIG problem if you got out more and met more girls from G Phi or guys from Sig Ep...

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by: facts   

I didn't write the previous comment but all houses have top girls, great grades and are involved in campus activities, have campus leaders, are pretty, and have nice houses. You know what else? Most of them are social and not exclusive. Living in a bubble on a college campus will never make you a top house. DEAL WITH IT.

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by: ha ha ha ha   

It's obvious from a linguistics point of view that one person is writing all the comments about who's hanging out with whom.

Really, she's making such a big deal about it, but everyone has good friends that they hang out with the most and she's the only one at KU that seems to not have a good friend.

Sad, bitter, complainer.

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by: ha   

HAHAHAHA we have a trained linguist on Greek rank?? Sit your ass down you worthless gphi

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The thing that makes me super happy is yep I also dislike gphi for a lot of reasons and they make themselves sound stoooopid as hell with all their comments on this post. Attacking other houses and saying they are the top house. I wish you could see how you are embarrassing yourself. I'm in another top house and I hope my sisters would never stoop this low to feel like they have to talk themselves up this way.

By: Please stop
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Did I miss the part where GPhi said that they were a top tier house or.....

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by: ^^   

Only every other post. Where have you been?

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by: Truth   

I read the whole thread and found it interesting. Besides it be anonymous (you don't know that any G Phi ever posted), no one ever claimed G Phi was a top house. Multiple people have expressed opinions that the the criticisms were unimportant and untrue. Then the crazy immediately blasts back that G Phi can't be a top house because of the flaws that only she can see.

Having said all that, I'll state categorically that everyone who goes to KU (with the exception of crazy girl) knows without a doubt that G Phi is one of the very top houses. Maybe second to Chi O.

For sure crazy will be back to accuse me of being obsessed with Sig Ep or something, but I just wanted to get the truth out there.

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by: ll   

Gosh something has really skewed your version of "truth". You also don't know who made one single post, nor do you know what gphi did or didn't post. Multiple people have also expressed their dislike of gphi and a lot of them share the same opinion.
You are also blind if you say there aren't obvious flaws. Honey EVERYONE can see them in your horrid house.
"Everyone that goes to KU knows that gphi is one of the very top houses" Get off your high horse. Only the gphis believe that. What a conceited, vain, egotistical and arrogant thing to say. Hate to break it to you but no, only the gphis believe that. Obviously there is proof all over this site that gphi is one of the worst houses, for a hundred different reasons. Of course you think they're the best because you are obviously a gphi.
Sorry but the majority don't share your opinion.
No one person is accusing you of being obsessed with sigep everyone knows you are. That can be easily proven over and over again. Even your sisters admit that maybe you should get with the program.
No matter what you say or how you say it no one is going to believe you because actions speak louder than words. So now why don't you shut the hell up and stop acting like you're the best because you are a bunch of b.itchy snobby mean girls that the majority of KU hates. Sorry to break it to you.

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At least he's honest. Gphi sucks but they are still a top house. The only thing I ask from them is to be more social. It's so much more fun hanging out with other frats than Sigep. Be social ladies! (Sigep isn't fun compared to the Big Three)... and you know what I mean by the big three

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I'm a GPhi and I hate Sig Ep. I prefer Beta and Phi Delt. We're not all the same.

By: GPhi
by: Why   

Why do you prefer those two

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They are sweet, genuine and fun guys.

By: GPhi
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And what is your opinion who the top three are?? I'm sure that's different for every girl.

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