hey pnms
by: something to remembe
I am an out-of-state student and joined what most would consider to be a "top" house at KU. I quickly discovered that all of the girls in my pledge class were from the same area and were already good friends from high school as well as friends with the current girls in the house. I soon began to feel very not included and later dropped.
I'm not saying that didn't make them any less wonderful girls, they were still very nice and intelligent and I remain acquaintances with most of them. It is innate human nature to want to spend time with people you are comfortable with. I would probably have done the same thing in their position!
I just wanted to post to remind you that if you do end up joining a "top" house, more power to you! Just know that it will take a lot of effort and people-skills to really get into that group. I didn't have a lot of time to really bond with the girls, so make sure you have that time!
(Obviously, I only joined one house and just because one "top" house was like that doesn't mean they all are. This is just my personal experience!)
Finally, THE TIERS DO NOT MATTER. Seriously. My best friend ended up joining a "bottom" tier sorority and guess what? BOYS STILL HANG OUT WITH HER. Just because you are a "so and so" doesn't mean they are going to stop trying to get in your pants. If they think you're cute, they think you're cute. Bottom line. Just don't worry about it, enjoy recruitment and don't go in with any preconceived notions.
#14 by: actually
This is so true. No one ever said they cared about gphi and sigep being obsessed with each other, what point is trying to be made is stop saying you're a top house. Top houses at KU are very social and active and mingle with everyone. You can't be a top house if you only hang out with one frat.. YOU ARE NOT A TOP HOUSE.
#15 by: Please stop
The thing that makes me super happy is yep I also dislike gphi for a lot of reasons and they make themselves sound stoooopid as hell with all their comments on this post. Attacking other houses and saying they are the top house. I wish you could see how you are embarrassing yourself. I'm in another top house and I hope my sisters would never stoop this low to feel like they have to talk themselves up this way.
#17 by: ^
At least he's honest. Gphi sucks but they are still a top house. The only thing I ask from them is to be more social. It's so much more fun hanging out with other frats than Sigep. Be social ladies! (Sigep isn't fun compared to the Big Three)... and you know what I mean by the big three
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by: gheezJul 6, 2014 6:06:31 PM
Gphi, you need to open up your eyes and realize there is an entire world out there. You're only hurting yourselves by refusing to socialize outside your clique. You have some serious growing up to do.