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Yes actually the very best situation is a girl who has no idea about greek life at ku and has no clue who is "supposed" to be a top house, that way they pick their house based on how they feel when they are meeting girls from all the houses, not just wanting a house because they heard it was top or their friends are in it. The happiest most settled girl is one who knows nothing before recruitment.

^^ from the mouth of a very stuck up girl

Each and every house recruits for grades and activities, and if you admit your house recruits for looks that's superficial and rude. With that being equal for all houses, the next deciding factor is friends. If you meet the minimum, where you eventually end up is more about where you went to highschool.

I think we should all worry about girls being stuck up because who wants to be with a stuck up girl? You are trying to justify why certain houses pick their friends, or try to get the hottest girls.

Being busy has nothing to do with being stuck up? I don't know why you would use that excuse. Fact is a stuck up girl thinks she's better than everyone else and will only associate with girls she thinks are up to her standards. Sorry but most girls in so called exclusive top houses aren't better than anyone they just THINK they are. That is the biggest difference. If you are a truly genuine girl who is outgoing and open to all friendships, and is helpful and friendly to everyone, don't pick one of the stuck up houses or you will be very miserable. You won't fit in because there are already cliques in place and they will be too "busy" to include you or want to be your friend.

There is so much about the comments above that I can't even start. First, no one knows what other girls think. Just because someone does hair and makeup doesn't mean they are snobby. That's just LUDICROUS! Not every girl is outgoing. It's beyond belief stupid that someone thinks that less outgoing girls are shallow and rude. I can't say anything in response to the girl who can list some girls in top houses that "aren't attractive at all." If she thinks that physical looks are the most important thing, it says a lot about her character.

Obviously you both are somewhat intimidated by girls in certain houses. Instead of blaming them, why don't you adjust your attitude. Work on campus events and get to know the girls you're working with. Start a study group and meet some new girls and get to know them during your study sessions. Join a club and get to know others that way.

Your immature attitudes are standing in the way of making new friends.

I'm saying that the concept of "stuck up" doesn't exist in college. It's an attitude left over from 7th grade. In college, girls hang out with people they knew in high school, people in their classes, people in their houses, people in their dorms, people they've worked on committees with, people they've met through their friends, the girlfriends of their boyfriends, etc. They don't hang out with some girl with an entitled feeling that she'd like to hang out with some Chi Os or G Phis but that they're too snobby.

If you don't know them from one of the ways I've listed, then why are you wanting to hang out with them? If you do know them and want more of their time than they want to spend with you, grow up. It's not all about you. They may have lots of people that they enjoy hanging out with.

The biggest thing is your attitude. From your comments it seems like you're seeking out girls in certain houses and trying to strike up a friendship out of thin air just because they are in that house. Then you judge them because they don't spend time with you. AWKWARD!

Work on your attitude. And stop pretending to know what house someone is in just because they don't agree with you.

OMG on #11 is a little dense. I feel sorry for her, but really... She has some deep seated inferiority problems.

You comment on the other post how girls that write here are just trying to influence new members. Isn't that exactly what you're doing? Talking up your house and calling everyone else crazy who doesn't believe you? Hypocrite

I don't see anyone "talking up" a certain sorority or trying to influence recruitment in a postive way for a house. What I see is a psycho ranting on and on about stuck up girls in GPhi and other people who are telling her she's crazy. Which it looks like, from her postings, that she actually is. If you want to talk up a sorority, there are lots of ways, but saying that their girls aren't stuck up just because they don't want to hang out with a psycho isn't one of them.