Alumni Perspective

As an alumni of 6+ years of a “top house” it’s disturbing to see that these rankings are still going on. There are dozens of posts for years of arbitrarily ranking groups of 100+ women on what? Haven’t we figured out that these ranks are just a psychological social phenomenon of “self ranking” in order to improve our own ego or impress other men? Being in a top house does not make you prettier, does not make you more loved, does not make you skinnier, does not get you better jobs, does not help you get into grad school, does not make you more money, and does not matter in the long run. I beg of you all to please remove yourself from the toxicity of this website and realize the bigger picture that is life. One day very soon from now no one will care/remember if you were a KD or a XO, they will remember if you were a kind, honest, loving, joyful human being. At the end of the day, regardless of how hot you are, how many boys in center club want to hook up with you, how many likes you have, it is extremely odd/weird to rank groups of women on an anonymous platform.