Help. Is it too early to tell
by: StressedThis entire process is so tiring and tbh I don’t know if I feel a real “connection” anywhere yet. I have gphi dg theta and tri delt left now. they are all nice but I don’t feel a pull anywhere. I have genuinely liked my conversations everywhere but I can’t tell if I’m supposed to have a “home feeling” yet. I feel like I’m the only pnm who isn’t excited and can’t tell if I should even be doing this. Is this normal?
Comment#2 by: ww
Hey, so it's totally normal to not have the "magic" "I belong here" feeling that so many people talk about. I didn't fall in love my sorority in an instant, it took a little bit of time. I liked them, I was happy when I got my bid, but it wasn't life changing. And that's completely fine!
I ended up absolutely loving my sorority, but also having friends in all sororities, and I can honestly say that I would've been happy in a variety of sororities. Mine just ended up being the one that fit me a little bit better.
It's not the end of the world, it doesn't have to be an earth shattering connection. But if you like the girls and can see being friends with them- give it a shot!
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by: TruthJan 14, 2022 8:41:48 AM
Definitely! I wasn’t able to figure out the right place for me until pref so don’t lose hope. This experience is exhausting for everyone
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