help i need advice top v middle

You go to Boulder - Everyone parties, everyone has fun, everyone does all the things you’re wanting to do (and it’s okay that you want that experience it !!). It sounds like you know what you want to do, I promise you won’t miss out on a single thing in either house.

tbh sometimes there can be more pressure and/or drama with a top tier house and a lot of times the sisterhood can be stronger in a mid tier. If you are cute and fun guys don't care what house you are in.

If your conversations were better at theta, there is a high chance you will end up with a bid from them even if you put pi phi first. And then you would be in the exact same place but bummed knowing that a house dropped you (pi phi is the “hardest” house to get into - just stating facts).

If your experience was better at theta, go with theta. That is the way this is supposed to work and it’s certainly the way the houses are looking at it.

You sound like you found your place - go with it. All houses are great at CU and frankly, so is not being in one all together. Our school is the best.

i would say pi phi is a little more social and theta a little more academic if that helps at all (?)

I think you are going to have more fun in the house you feel the most comfortable.

if u want to go theta, go theta and don’t worry about what other people think ❤️

literally the only ones that care about ranks are pnm’s. you will love your new house tomorrow regardless of how they are ranked!

as someone who prefed aphi and theta and chose theta 100% choose the house u felt more comfortable with / had better connections with. I felt a similar way during rush and was worried I wouldn’t get those social opportunities and I was completely wrong. I also met some of my best friends for life. like being a freshmen etc you’ll have all those opportunities regardless but getting to meet girls you genuinely get along with / have connections with is what is important!! good luck :)