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A message to CU Panhellenic

by: jadedgirl

I, like many many girls this fall was left absolutely heartbroken by this year's fall rush.

I put my heart and soul into being in a sorority and was sorely disappointed. I understand that there were simply not enough space for everyone and thats fine.

I urge you to please learn from your mistakes and to cap the amount of girls allowed to sign up for rush. Yes, people will get dropped and will drop thats part of the process but if you are going to promise that everyone will find where they belong you need to play your part as well.

if there are 9 houses and room for around 150 girls per PC, you cannot allow almost 2000 girls to rush, you need to put a cap on it. ESPECIALLY now that Rush is more popular and Prime put us on the map.

Please, for the sake of the girls that come after me, limit how many girls can sign up.

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#1  by: Agree   
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I agree. Something needs to change. Panhellenic was so unorganized last year. The website has conflicting and old information. The rush guide was a joke with old information, formatting issues, and so many typos it’s embarrassing. Why do they need to keep registration open until the day rush starts when they could cut it off in July like Bama does. Between letting in more freshman than space in dorms and way too many girls going through rush, this past year has been a mess. I feel sorry for next years freshman because it’s only going to get worse.

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#2  by: true, but…   
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Agree with all of this, but girls also have to be willing to keep their options open. Too many girls dropped completely after they got dropped by aphi or pi phi. TBH-rush at CU is super competitive. You may be the most popular girl at your hs and come to Boulder and be shocked when YOU aren’t invited back to the house you loved. Too many girls missed out and the entire sorority experience because they thought they were too good for a certain house. There are gorgeous girls in every house (even tri-delt). ❤️

By: true, but…
by: good pointFeb 21, 2024 4:40:17 PM

Good point. I guess ppl can't complain that much when we have at least one house that didn't make quota.

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#3  by: panhel   
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Panhel is a mess. When you google Boulder panhel you get info from 2022 and a pic of the president from 2 years ago!

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#4  by: Bump   
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Bumping this post. Please cap recruitment this year.

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by: idkFeb 22, 2024 3:05:49 PM

Idk how you can put a limit on recruitment? Would it be whoever signs up first gets in?

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by: changeFeb 22, 2024 3:39:18 PM

@idk - they could shorten the sign up window which may cut down on the number. I really doubt anything is going to change with panhel though, it's going to be the same as always but worse with even more pnms.

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#5  by: there is space    
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Sorry you are wrong. If there are houses not meeting quota-there is a space for every pnm. The problem is girls think they are “too good” for a house and end up missing out on the entire sorority experience. tbh-it’s sad.

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by: IdkMar 4, 2024 10:51:51 PM

I am not disagreeing with your point, but if there are 1800 pnms and 9 houses are you saying the pc’s should be 200?

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by: no, butMar 5, 2024 12:13:29 PM

def not 200 pnms in a pc. panhel has the stats tho and know that statistically x number of pnms will drop. a lot of girls go thru recruitment and find out really fast that greeklife isn't for them whether it's the time commitment, cost, etc.

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by: PrimeMar 8, 2024 2:40:05 PM

FLIP THOSE HOUSES!!!! It can be done

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#6  by: Sorry but   
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Until every house including tri delta is at capacity nothing will be done to cut recruitment numbers.

Phi mu came and failed cause of the idea that girls are “too good” for certain chapters. So I’m sorry you didn’t get the houses you wanted, but it’s time the attitude changed rather than blaming panhel.

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#7  by: 100%   
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Seconding. CU Panhel is a dumpster fire and their work on fall rush was DISGRACEFUL. once you get into 2000ish girls rushing but 9 houses, you’re going to get crazy cuts and MANY girls getting completely dropped just because of bad luck and many girls getting through ONLY because of good luck.

Also to everyone in the comments saying that girls dropping after not getting a house their mind was set on was a primary reason fall rush was a disaster…. were you even in boco during fall rush this year?
some girls got a normal sorority recruitment experience JUST because they had 4-5 or more houses the first day. Many many girls got dropped or just 1 or 2 houses- not due to there being legit reasons for that, but JUST because of luck and how the numbers worked out for that very first in person datebook.
And some houses on this campus do have extremely weak recruiting. there’s a reason that girls that got just one house dropped, and the majority of the time girls are not so shallow that they drop recruitment because they think they’re “too good” for one house. It’s often because they had a genuinely bad experience, because as I just said, there is a lot of work to be done on recruitment for some houses in particular to make PNMs feel welcome, celebrated, and like they’re being meaningfully engaged with. some houses do that a lot better than others and some houses are also inconsistent.

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by: yes, butMar 11, 2024 7:08:44 PM

agree, houses are definitely inconsistent. sadly, a lot of houses (including mine) hide their least attractive, over weight girls during recruitment. i am in a top house and we call these the basement girls. they tally pnm scores, work in the kitchen, etc. You won’t even see these girls until bid day.

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#8  by: &   
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We literally had a house close last year because freshies thought they were too good to be in a house with “weird” girls and tri delts hanging on by a thread for the same thing. i think most of the problem lies within the girls who rush attitudes

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#9  by: pnm's   
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some girls come in thinking they are guaranteed a spot in a top house when the fact is with so many pnm’s you are lucky to score a spot anywhere (including tri-delt)

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#10  by: greek   
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it sucks not getting invited back to the houses you want, but it’s not entirely panhels fault and highlights the bigger issue. the only way panhel would ever consider closing recruitment early if all chapters met quota, and if all chapters were meeting quota they would probably opt to add another house vs. closing registration early. i’m not saying panhel wasn’t disorganized last year, but these are the facts. if there were “too many girls” phi mu would still be on campus and wouldn’t have been shut down for low numbers.

it won’t happen, but if every pnm was open minded and stuck with recruitment, every house would have their best pc in history. and if that happened, i genuinely think each house would have a HUGE pc because pledge class size is averaged. when some houses have smaller pcs it brings down the number the other houses can have… there IS a place for everyone in greek life, but not everyone wants the spot they’re offered and when too many girls drop, the numbers get weird and it can mess things up.

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by: greek housesAug 28, 2024 3:51:53 PM

i think the other problem is the lack of real estate? if Boulder added another sorority, they probably wouldn’t have a house. It’s almost like you have to wait for a frat to shut down so you can take over their house.

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by: nopeAug 28, 2024 8:23:41 PM

i think it is CU Panhel’s fault! They need to be more transparent about the numbers. Other schools have greek score cards where they report recruitment numbers, chapter gpa’s, philianthropy $ raised, etc. If you go to cu boulder panhel’s website they have 2020 cob info. Get it together Boulder Panhellenic! If nationally NPC is trying to place 90% of girls going through recruitment and on 66% of girls at Boulder are finding a home, it’s a HUGE problem!

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