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i trusted the process. i was so excited for every single house and was so ready to meet everyone.
i put my all into these conversations with these girls, clean socials, great resume, etc etc but i was left with one house for sisterhood and pref. my rho gams assured me that i was just unlucky. i kept putting my everything into that one house i had left.
that house was so rude, dismissive, shallow, and fake to me in every single conversation during rush that i couldn’t believe they kept inviting me back every day. i was in tears after every party of theirs i attended.
but i kept going. i trusted it would work out and kept putting my everything into these conversations.
i was crying for hours after pref when i decided not to sign the mraba. my conversations in that house made me feel so worthless that i couldn’t see any way it would work.

i trusted the process. and now that i see how disorganized panhel seems, how slim the chances for COB this year look, i feel so betrayed by that little motto.

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recruitment this year was a huge mess. you were smart not to sign the MRABA. I hope you get another chance to find a house that’s the right fit for you!

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You can go thru again as a sophomore but recruitment is probably going to be very competitive next year. Did you cut a lot of houses early on? Maybe try to get to know girls in different houses and see where you vibe? If you really want to be in a house, I would def try to get a bid somewhere in the spring. Next year will be much harder 😞

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by: yessssssssss   

same-I felt like the girl I had at kappa hated me but they kept showing up on my schedule

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name drop the house, i had one that i had a VERY similar experience with but luckily didn’t have to go back to on pref, but the previous two days i left being like “bruh that girl didn’t even like me why tf am i here”

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I want name drops so badly

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by: same!   

fr happened at my legacy house-house my mom was in. finally got dropped before pref

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