sororities and weight
by: selfconscioushi! i'm rushing in the fall and i'm super nervous mostly because i'm really self conscious of my weight. I would say i'm a solid size 5, about 130 pounds. I've heard a lot of stories about during rush the houses really care about how skinny a girl is, and even one story about how much room there was when the girls walked through the door. Of course i'm not trying to join a house that is superficial af but i'm curious if girls who aren't super skinny can get into the top houses too? i'm super hard on myself about my weight and its one of the reasons i'm so nervous about rush this fall, because i've been told how rush is really fake and all about looks (from other friends who are in top/middle and bottom houses). maybe i'm just stressing myself out too much but just any advice to calm my nerves would be really appreciated! my top choices so far from friends in houses are middle houses and 1 upper mid/lower top so I don't want Kappa or any of those but just a good house with a mix of social life and good sisterhood. any advice to calm my nerves is really appreciated!!
#1by: no
no houses really notice / care unless you are like morbidly obese. this is cal... not Alabama, USC or Florida State...you aren't competing with the most stunning girls in the nation. Rush is competitive at cal but not nearly as competitive as it is at other schools. i would recommend speaking to a counselor or something if this is really something that is bothering you that much... no shame, we all need help here and there. you'll be fine! be your best self and you'll find your place. good luck xo
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