Dear PNMs

I hope y’all aren’t on this site right now, but I know how hard it can be to stay off sites like this and how nerve racking bid day can be. Take it from a senior, whichever sorority offers you a bid is a great opportunity to make amazing friends. Every PNM I preffed last night was incredible, and I can tell that every pledge class is going to be amazing this year. Don’t listen to sites like this or people that don’t have your best interest at heart. They’ll say don’t go deeph cuz their mean or pi phi cuz they’re new but they’ll never have a positive thing to say about anyone. If you made it to pref and used both your options, you are almost guaranteed a bid so don’t even worry about it. If you’re online and sad you can’t make it back in person, remember you will have so many more bid days in the future. and if you don’t get your first choice, remember your second choice chose YOU, potentially over someone who ranked them first and got a bid somewhere else