toxic place!!!!

im sorry I should correct myself; why is it so hard to get into a sorority that you actually want to be in. and no I didnt want to be in sdt or deeph.

So u don’t want SDT or deeph, but it sounds like you think half the other sororities are beneath you too. So basically you have your heart set on 1-3 sororities and the school is “toxic” because u don’t like half the options but didn’t get exactly what u want?

This goes for everyone not just u, but because if you don’t want SDT or deeph most if not all of the sororities will take your attitude, demeanor and values into account as well as, if not more than, the superficial stuff. I can tell you when my chapter votes if a girl lights up the room no matter who it is she will be invited back, but if she seems standoffish or disinterested she’ll get cut if even if she looks like Blake lovely. You may think you can turn it on and off and that ur coming off good at the chapters you want, but we see through it and most of the middle tiers want kind girls who are a good time and that is why so many people get dropped from recruitment every year. If you go in thinking you only want or deserve a few specific chapters and are entitled to a bid there, but aren’t open to other ones, chances are greek life just isn’t for you

Not toxic just hard to do virtual. Meet more people and try again. Or maybe not for you which is fine. You will be totally fine no matter what. Don’t take it personally virtual rush is weird