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dropping out with only dphie left

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so dphie was the only
place i was invited back to today. I'm dropping out of rush. After seeing every horrible thing they've posted and how they treat each other...I think i'd rather not be Greek at all. am i wrong to quickly drop? I saw them roll their eyes at each other and I'm just not sure. I've always dreamed of being in a sorority and my mom and sister were both in sororities (pi phi and theta). I was so sad umiami doesn't have them so i went in with an open mind. but i truly don't think i can imagine being in dphie after hearing things and seeing how they treat each other. am i wrong? any advice?

Posted By: sororitywannabe
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I definitely understand where you are coming from.
I personally wouldn't want deeph either, but they called you back because they like you. And they are still a top sorority here, maybe not as good as DG or SDT but i still think you should go through with it, and drop if you feel like you absolutely hate it later.
And regardless of some negative experiences you've had, being in a sorority is a great benefit and i can promise you won't hate everyone you meet. I have a good friend in dphie and she is super fun and i don't understand why she is in dphie, because most girls i know there are annoying, BUT I really think you should go back and just see how it plays out. You ma be surprised and actually like some of the people you meet. If you absolutely hate it, you can ALWAYS drop later.
hope this helps!

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thank you so much! i appreciate the advice. i'm sure there are some girls i will find who i clique with.

By: sororitywannabe
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happy to help!

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i agree with the first comment conpletely

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Can't tell if this is a real or troll post but you should not make any decisions based on greekrank. I'm in a mid tier house and have friends in every house and we all respect each other. GR is in no way like real life.

There's a troll on GR who probably got dropped by dphie and/or DG and they are super salty about it.

Anyway, the friends I have in dphie are sweet girls. I think rankings are bs but they are considered one of the top houses of that matters to you.

Every sorority has a huge mix of girls and you are going to find friends with as many girls as we have in every sorority. If you hate it, you can always drop.

I hope that helps!

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i only got asked back to dphie too idk what to do

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