advice for pnms

GO IN WITH AN OPEN MIND! I put emphasis on that because you have to when you go through recruitment. You want to find where your home is and where YOU feel most comfortable in. This is a commitment you're making and with that you want to fit where you think you'll be happy the most. TRUST THE PROCESS! Another saying that I put emphasis on because if you do you will end up finding your place to be. It's also a saying that is said a lot during recruitment and when

My biggest piece of advice to every PNM is to trust your gut and do NOT be distracted by the name of a sorority. I personally went into recruitment wanting to go a certain sorority just for its name and how well it was known nationally. Preference night rolled around, and I realized that I truly did not fit into that organization, so I chose a different one and am so glad that I did. I am so relieved that I went with my gut feeling because I would've disliked the organization I thought I had wanted so 'badly'. Trust your gut!

Be OPEN! Please. Make your own decisions and do not listen to the negative comments bout a soriority. I know people in each sorority and EVERY one has their ups and downs. But no matter where you go, it is what you make out of it that counts!