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by: new pledgei went gphi and i think i should have gone dg but i made a last minute decision on pref day! What should i do??? i want dg :((
Comment#2by: nick
by: Lol
Imagine joining a sorority just so you can say you’re in a top house :/ ... YIKES
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#3by: acutally helpful
Ok I know you think that you made a mistake, but relax, give it some time talk to your pref get to know your sisters see if you like gphi before deciding you like another sorority better and if you truly think you aren't a good fit then drop (which you can do any time before you initiate which isn't till a couple weeks from now) and from there you can talk to girls in all the sororities get to know them better and find a home for yourself. You're just probably stressed cause the recruitment here is really short but each sorority has good things about it and you probably chose it for a reason. So again just talk to your sisters that's what they are there for. Definitely stay off greekrank it's all negativity and that's just gonna cloud your mind more. Who knows? Maybe you will decide you love gphi or maybe you'll end up in an entirely different sorority next year.
#4by: acutally helpful
Ok I know you think that you made a mistake, but relax, give it some time talk to your pref get to know your sisters see if you like gphi before deciding you like another sorority better and if you truly think you aren't a good fit then drop (which you can do any time before you initiate which isn't till a couple weeks from now) and from there you can talk to girls in all the sororities get to know them better and find a home for yourself. You're just probably stressed cause the recruitment here is really short but each sorority has good things about it and you probably chose it for a reason. So again just talk to your sisters that's what they are there for. Definitely stay off greekrank it's all negativity and that's just gonna cloud your mind more. Who knows? Maybe you will decide you love gphi I have friends in all sororities and they are happy
#5by: salt and vinegar
stay in gphi for a lil while longer, you might just need some more time to vibe w the chapter. but if you're unsure, don't initiate. since you accepted a bid from gphi you can't accept a bid from another sorority until one year from now, so basically until next fall formal recruitment in 2019. you can still join another chapter next year but if you initiate in gphi you won't be able to join any other sororities.
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by: true
Ok I know you think that you made a mistake, but relax, give it some time talk to your pref get to know your sisters see if you like gphi before deciding you like another sorority better and if you truly think you aren't a good fit then drop (which you can do any time before you initiate which isn't till a couple weeks from now) and from there you can talk to girls in all the sororities get to know them better and find a home for yourself. You're just probably stressed cause the recruitment here is really short but each sorority has good things about it and you probably chose it for a reason. So again just talk to your sisters that's what they are there for. Definitely stay off greekrank it's all negativity and that's just gonna cloud your mind more. Who knows? Maybe you will decide you love gphi I have friends in all sororities and they are happy
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