regrets

by: Sorority galOct 10, 2017 12:13:08 AM

I just went through recruitment and ended hon up in a too 2 chapter:I didn’t necessarily like them the most but I figured I wasn’t lucky enough to keep getting asked back so I just went along for the ride. I actually liked a diff chapter More ( middle popularity) but I felt lucky enough to get into a top house so I chose that. I don’t need really feel like I fit inn as much now. It seems there’s half of the pledge class that isn’t already really close with the actives that met And partied before. They aren’t as nice or inclusive to the other half of us and we can feel it.

After i didn’t choose the other house I prefed with some of the girls still congratulated me on campus today. They were so nice and sweet I feel like I’ve made the wrong choice and can’t undo it...

Not sure what to do at this point ?

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#1 by: Awwwww Oct 10, 2017 12:21:02 AM

Go out, make an effort to meet your sisters. They'll love you, just go with the flow wherever you ended up.

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#2 by: Well Oct 10, 2017 1:42:45 AM

If you really cant, you can always drop

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#3 by: well Oct 10, 2017 2:30:36 PM

try it out, but don't force something that isn't supposed to be there. Waiting a year and going through recruitment again is better than being stuck in a sorority for the rest of college that you don't feel connected to.

By: wellOct 10, 2017 2:30:36 PM

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#4 by: truth Oct 10, 2017 3:39:21 PM

it's still really early. you definitely will meet more girls in your new chapter with time. if you put in the effort to meet girls, everyone else will reciprocate!

By: truthOct 10, 2017 3:39:21 PM