dear pnm's; dirty rush.

At this point in time, some girls have probably reached out to you in one way or another. What you may not know is that there are certain rules regarding this contact.
-They may not buy you things
-They may not provide you with anything. Even transportation. Or Brandy Melville discounts or take you to the LA Fair
-They may NOT take you to parties or provide alcohol.
-They may not offer you a bid before bid night or promise you entrance into their chapter.

Now, if they have done these things for you I'm sure you feel very special. Keep in mind though that the only reason they are doing these things is to entice you to join their chapter. If they had a good friendship and great personalities they wouldn't have to do these things.

Basically, if you want to just party, have fake friends, and a miserable time in sisterhood then by all means join just because they "spoil" you. It'll all end once you're actually in the chapter when the facade fades.
Who knows, maybe every chapter is dirty rushing at this point.