talking to one girl vs many during parties

I cannot honestly say but I do know for sure that one AU sorority only places one girl with a PNM. I honestly do not understand how they get to know girls this way as a group and furthermore have no idea how a PNM can get to know or have any idea if they feel a mesh with the girls.

Most sororities have plans to get multiple actives to talk to one pnm, but with so many girls it can get chaotic and sometimes mess up - so if only one girl talked to you, don't worry! Probably just means the flow was messed up

Several things could have happened that had apsolutely nothing to do with you. ( which is likely) there could have been a mix up in the way girls are rotated -- it happens when so many girls go through For IWT's. It could just be the way that sorority rushes for the first round. Please don't think it is because they didn't like you. It's very hectic and stressful for the girls rushing you as well. Everything will work ...try not to worry.

I was cut from the very first house I went to after IWT because my good friend in that house talked to me the whole time. She said she just lost track of time since it was her first party on the house side. Anyways, at that house they had a minimum requirement that 3 girls had to approve to get you to the next round and I only had the one I already knew. She said she fought for me but couldn't do anything by herself. She felt awful and so did I. I'm not telling you this to worry you, just to say sometimes things happen that aren't your fault and you can get dropped for it. So hang in there and get some rest.