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i think i got dirty rushed

by: help pls

ok so its been a long time since this happened but i’ve been thinking on this recently, but i think i got dirty rushed by a chapter during recruitment. it was my top chapter and when it came to sisterhood i was talking to one girl and she said “once you join ()” and “as a ()” and stuff like that. she all but flat out told me i was getting invited back for pref, but i never did. it has messed with me all this time but idk what to do. is there someone i can talk to in panhellenic or someone on campus?

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#1  by: You Can   
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You can report it to Panhellenic. Depending on how long ago it was, it may not matter but always worth trying. Do keep in mind they will likely make excuses. They tell the sisters not to say those things but they can't control what every single person says.

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#2  by: eh   
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Don't know what house, but really that just means "once SOMEONE joins ()" not once YOU in particular join. It's just semantics, and the way everyone talks in rush. Unless there are other circumstances, this would be hard to prove as purposeful dirty rushing. If you don't report it immediately and then they drop you it kind of just looks like revenge. If this was your number one house, it really does hurt to get dropped, but there's nothing you did wrong, or could have done to change the situation, whether this person actually dirty rushed you or not. Please try to let this go; you're not going to find satisfaction.

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by: trueFeb 9, 2023 9:19:07 AM

Sometimes people speak in a general you versus a you in particular.

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