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by: ..Seriously?

I mean can we just stop with this site? I just stumbled on it while procrastinating from studying and this is absolutely ridiculous. I mean what sororities and fraternities feel like they have the right to rank other groups? Don't ya'll think its embarrassing that Auburn didn't even make the "Top 50 Greek Life Colleges" list this year? Maybe this is why. If you could just work together instead of constantly tearing each other down on this site and rating groups as bottom tier (I mean what does that even mean? Every group is good in their own different way. Why do you feel the need to put groups down that others consider amazing?) then you would make Auburn PanHellenic look a helluva lot better to non Greeks and non auburn students. Stop being so shallow and catty. I don't know about other people, but it makes me think that the sororities and fraternities ranking themselves as "Top Tier" are actually really shallow minded insecure or stuck up people. If you really feel the need to post on this site try to post positive things about all the groups or just your group, don't bring other groups down, and stop giving Auburn Greek life a bad name. Sheesh

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#1  by: ^^^^^^^   
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R.E.S.P.E.C.T.
THANK you

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by: totally agreeFeb 11, 2014 1:30:53 AM

You are right. Respect is the key word.

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#2  by: Agree   
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The ONLY ones trying to rank themselves high are those who are afraid people will not see them as a top group. Believe me, if you are good, you don't have to get on here and tell people by putting your group at the top and other groups down low. They all look the same!

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#3  by: reply   
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...Seriously?, seriously...you do realize this is a GREEK RANKING SITE correct? Also if you look at the "Top 50 Greek Life Colleges" groups listed..THEY are also on HERE posting similar nonsense just like we do! Surely GreekRank was not a source in the decisions making to name them top 50...
and btw....here's a question...WHO RANKED THEM TOP 50? Shouldn't you also be against the people who ranked them top ..oh, and the ones ranked top by them as well...

According to your theory...I bet it's only the people from those schools who voted themselves best anyway, right?

(Shouldn't they have been positive about all the Colleges? I mean aren't we all good? How do they know who is best?)

Agree, now...how ironic that you agree with Seriously? ...then you turn right around a bash in your post. You really think the girls in the top 5 or 7 sororities that are usually listed are all in agreement to only rank each other top??? And you assert that it's because they're NOT good.. How absolutely ridiculous!!

People of GreekRank... please only say nice things and be nice to each other!!!! and never rank any groups because you have no idea what you're talking about...and if you rank it's only because you suck and have to scream you're the best...Oh, and be sure not to over post you're positive comments on your own wall or any other's... because then you are self ranking ...or will be accused of it ..and that's a huge no no too... Sarcasm ended.

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by: Dear Sarcasm,Feb 11, 2014 4:42:27 PM

You have some valid points. All of the ranking and comments are totally subjective. To take any of it seriously would be unrealistic. Perhaps the most productive thing a person could gain from Greek Rank may come from asking ourselves why we read and write on this site and process the real meaning of our messages. We might really learn something about ourselves.What drives us to say the things we say? If it is negative, maybe we can do something about that part of us that needs a bit of help. You are right. Thank-you for your insight.

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#4  by: to "reply"   
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Are you are the "....." person?

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by: replyFeb 11, 2014 10:05:05 PM

I honestly have no clue what "...." is?

But I will say, in spite of my sarcastic rant, I totally agree that kindness is better than spewing nasty remarks to or about other groups on here. It bugs me just as much when people are passive aggressive in their comments trying to make it seem like they aren't (like agree did).
I said nothing unkind about any group in my comment tho. I don't care if my group is ranked top on here. But..I see no problem with ranking on a site for ranking... just saying.

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by: to replyFeb 11, 2014 10:27:31 PM

Kindness is the avenue to follow. Most of us totally agree with the classy approach.

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by: replyFeb 12, 2014 2:54:54 PM

Okay...so I just read "...."'s remarks on the other discussion. I actually don't mind being "thought of" as them because I think we basically agree on most things. "...." has some common sense!

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#5  by: to to reply   
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Same flavor of anger.Looks like they may be the same person.

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by: ........Feb 11, 2014 11:47:12 PM

Nope I'm here. I didn't write "reply." I agree with everything she said though. People act really high and mighty on here and I feel like it's an act. The entire site is based on opinions. If you don't like people stating opinions on a forum whose soul purpose is to let people post opinions, then I suggest finding something else to look out. No one is going to change this, and I'm not advocating cruelty or cattiness. But it's really annoying when someone states an opinion, and then someone comments in an overly nice (i.e. condescending) tone condemning an opinion. You can disagree, that's fine. But stop telling me and others that we're terrible people for sharing opinions instead of keeping them to ourselves, because we all know everyone has them.

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by: ^^^^"Feb 12, 2014 12:36:17 PM

"stop telling me and others that we're terrible people for sharing opinions instead of keeping them to ourselves, because we all know everyone has them". So the original poster isn't allowed to have an opinion?

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#6  by: ........   
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Also that's the last time I type a long reply on my phone. So many typos.

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by: to ......Feb 12, 2014 1:21:39 AM

You just demanded that your opinion should be heard, but at the same time told others that their opinion about your opinion should stop. That hardly seems fair.

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by: ......Feb 12, 2014 2:12:51 AM

Really I said that opinions should be heard. Then I said it was fine to disagree. Telling people to stop giving an opinion IS NOT SHARING AN OPINION (I mean technically yeah thats an opinion, but not in the same sense). It's demanding that people play nice, or by your rules or standards of a website. If you want to give an opinion different than mine, BY ALL MEANS. That is LITERALLY why this site exists. If you want to encourage silencing, then please leave. I have no idea why I'm having to explain this so often. Everyone should work on their comprehension levels, except for "wait" and "denial" below. Y'all keep doing you, you get the point.

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by: to.....Feb 12, 2014 1:17:59 PM

you just encouraged silencing by telling people to leave.

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by: yepFeb 12, 2014 1:31:04 PM

that's the one that can dish it out, but can't take it.

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by: ......Feb 12, 2014 8:36:15 PM

I truly have no idea why y'all aren't seeing the difference between it being okay to give your opinion, and it not being okay to discourage people from giving an opinion. Commenting on a post you don't like and telling someone to stop posting (unless it is truly cruel, which mine was no where near) is not sharing an opinion. I am not being hypocritical by saying that trying silence someone is wrong. There is an actual law about everyone's right to free speech, but that doesn't include telling people they can't speak freely. This is the same thing. That is not hypocritical. That's ensuring that everyone is heard even if you don't like what someone is saying. People telling someone to stop posting opinions are NOT included. I'm sorry but if you haven't grasped that yet, you're not going to. And I'm not going to beat it into the ground anymore.

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by: talkFeb 12, 2014 11:51:03 PM

Some people just have a need to talk. A real need.

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#7  by: Wait-   
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you do realize this is not just an Auburn site??? Type in most any college name at the top in the search with sororities or fraternities. You would be shocked to read some of the nasty comments at other schools. Honestly, the Auburn part of this site is really pretty civil.

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#8  by: Denial   
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You can say rankings don't matter but they do. You can say people don't care about this stuff but they do.

When have you ever heard of Phi Mu, KD, or Alpha Gam have a social with what would be considered a middle tier fraternity on here? Never. Whether it's perfect or not every single one of these organizations judge each other and there's nothing wrong with sharing your opinion on here.

And yes sometimes it gets out of hand, I know that but this site is anonymous so it's expected

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#9  by: Rank on   
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Ranking a group is just ranking who you like the best or dislike. The sororities or fraternities that get on here rank their groups the best, since that is what most people would do. No one is going to get on here and rank their own group low and others high. Enjoy it and take all this with a grain of salt. It's just an individuals opinion and that's how it should be.

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by: kinda..Feb 12, 2014 9:38:01 PM

but not really. I doubt anyone who lists sororities in the middle or lower rankings actually doesn't LIKE those groups...they're just saying where they feel each fit in the big schemes of things. I highly doubt most of the time there's any ill will intended towards any group.

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My bottom like is...I honestly don't like the lists on here either..but most of the time...they aren't far off base if we're being honest. I will say...I think the most productive thing anyone not listed by "others" on here as a top group can do is to work harder on our own groups internally. We have the power to change opinions! My point is.. coming on here and getting upset that you don't see your name listed as top 5 or 7 isn't an appropriate response. It's silly. And really ...slamming those listed as being old known top groups that aren't as good anymore is sour grapes and ridiculous. Those listed top 5 or 7 or 10 or whatever are GOOD and we all know it! There's been a lot of improvement in a couple of groups who in the past, were listed lower by "others," and have moved up in public opinion on here..and it's exciting to see. Our Auburn group has it's issues...but as "Wait" stated above...as a whole, we are a kinder nicer lot than most of the schools on here.

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by: wellFeb 14, 2014 10:18:57 AM

this may well be one of the best discussions that has occurred on this site. people actually making sense.

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by: AgreeFeb 14, 2014 4:59:03 PM

I totally agree that auburn is a classy school and by far the comments generally are kinder than the listings from many other schools. Hopefully, we can keep it kind. There is nothing wrong with voicing opinions, however, it can be done without putting others down. If you can't find at least neutral words to say about a group, then just go ahead and rank. We have great groups here and we want the world to understand that. Truthfully, there are wonderful girls in every sorority. Don't forget that you are talking about young women. These are human beings.

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