try try try again?
by: wannabe
I did one day of fall recruitment but I found out the next day that the house I wanted to get into had dropped me so I didn't go to the rest of the days. When I did the first day I met a couple of girls that I had so much in common with and I really wanted to be a part of their sisterhood so much because they seemed so cool but my feelings got hurt because I guess they didnt feel the same way.
I don't really know why: my grades are good, I have a lot of extracurriculars, and people tell me I'm an attractive person (unless i've been lied to my whole life)
Should I try again for this house? Or should I just take the hint that they didn't like me?
#1 by: well
Yes. You should. Are you sure you werent trying too hard? Just be natural and be yourself. You will find the right home, even if you think that house is or not. If they don't feel that you'd fit in with their chapter, they will not give you a bid even if they liked you. Plus, you want to be in a chapter that really wants you. I'd try if I was you because you never know! And they may not even remember you tbh if you got dropped earlier in recruitment.
Comment#2 by: well....
All I can say is, if the house you were looking at was Tri Delta, Alpha Phi, or Gamma Phi Beta, do your makeup real nice and hope they forget about whatever you did that made them drop you during fall recruitment. It's about 100x harder to get a bid during winter and spring, because they literally only have 5-10 spots open and are gonna take the prettiest girls.
by: alsoDec 16, 2014 1:37:23 PM
keep in mind i just heard from an alpha phi that they literally have no open spots, so they won't be doing winter. if that's true, it's going to be even hard to get tri delt or gphi because that's more of the same girls all wanting the 2 same houses.
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by: really?Dec 16, 2014 3:52:58 PM
Not too long ago it was floating around here that both APhi and GPhi had quite a few spots open. Someone confirm!
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by: I thinkDec 16, 2014 4:38:10 PM
by: I thinkDec 16, 2014 6:00:13 PM
Gamma phi beta has a decent amount of spots open due to a huge amount of their chapter graduating, but keep in mind it looks like they're also trying to reinvent themselves this year. So I think they'll mostly be taking basic Barbie looking hotties.
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by: uh ohDec 17, 2014 1:22:42 AM
If Alpha Phi doesn't do winter and GPhi and Tridelt do then Alpha Phi can say goodbye to top tier and hello to top middle :/
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by: omgDec 17, 2014 2:04:25 AM
this recruitment was god's greatest gift to Gamma Phi Beta and Tri Delta. They literally get to hand pick the hottest girls from winter recruitment. They must be thrilled, and with Theta going crazy on GR and Alpha Phis horrible Fall PC.... like those two houses must just be bouncing up and down. It looks like a Good year to be DDD or GphiB. But let's face it, there's really only one house that Does Good
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by: wannabeDec 16, 2014 3:13:24 AM
I think maybe I was trying too hard, I don't know... I mean how can I show my enthusiasm and that I really want to be a part of their chapter without being creepy or desperate
And what do I talk about so they think I would fit in?
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