pref night

i preffed 2 top houses. at one house, while i liked the girls, the conversation didn't flow naturally. at the other, conversation was easy, i felt relaxed and at home. there were also subtle things, little things girls said, etc, signs that made me know which house i should choose. i thought i was going to have a really hard decision because i LOVED both chapters, but in the end, the cliche, you'll know when you find your fit. listen to your intuition, it won't lead you astray.

Both my pref houses were amazing and I definitely had a hard time choosing. I ended up picking my chapter because all the girls rated me high and I rated them high. I always felt so comfortable there. My other pref house was amazing but there was one girl I wasn't as excited about and I didn't have that with my first choice. Also at bid day I had found out some bad news with personal issues and sisters I never talked to and made me feel better about it. I then forgot about my personal issues had fun and took care of my stuff. I also considered other aspects and felt like I fit into my first choice's events better.

For me I knew which house I wanted before pref night but I also had my second favorite and wanted to give them another chance. Well my second favorite became my top choice and that is the house I am in now! It became my top choice because their pref night was better and you could tell their bond was stronger. Also, the girl who preffed me I could tell really wanted me and I felt more comfortable. My original first choice who became my second after was great but I didnt like them as much when I felt like their pref night just wasnt that great. I really liked the girl I talked to but I got really bored after a while with the conversation (since it was longer). Glad I went to pref night!

i really liked both houses, but once i got to the first ceremony and sat down and talked and cried with the girl i was preffed with because we talked about something really deep (i dont usually cry).. i just knew. the second house felt different for me.