for real though

Well if that is who you fit in with great. No one is telling you not to pursue that. It is recommended you keep an open mind. That way you can find your true home. If you like pretty and popular go for it. No one is forcing you to decide what you like. However, seeing as you are a freshman and have less experience than me, I will tell you that being open-minded is the best way to live your life. Ive been kept from making major mistakes by being open minded. Ive also learned more about myself. I am also smarter because of it.

But being in a top house doesn't guarantee popularity.. I know plenty of girls that joined top chapters thinking that would get them face time with hot frat boys and in with the popular girls in their sorority.. but it didn't and they are basically ignored.. So if they listen to this website and just join the top 3 to be popular it doesn't mean it will work.. I know girls that are more social and popular in lower tiers than the girls I just mentioned in top houses #justsayin

good point but as long as you are hot it doesn't matter you will do fine. people are on this site to talk about rankings so I don't know why some people get so pissy about it