can't wait for the dg and alpha phi's to comment

Joining a sorority may be appealing at first based on who is the prettiest but I've had many friends DA from these chapters because girls were so mean. Also one of the said chapters had to have a counselor come in one year because they got too catty. Personally look for a house based on personality and how they respect other chapters. And just because they are a "top house" it doesn't mean they have to act like this. For example, Tri Delta is also considered a top house and I haven't ever experienced a girl for that chapter bashing on a girl in my own and they even went out of their way to ensure that they met us during sister sorority pairings. Also, axo and pi phi may not be considered top houses but the girls in these two houses have always been so sweet and welcoming towards other girls. They are accepting of everyone and always try hard.

So to pnms it's just a thought to maybe look into any of these houses before you get caught up in the whole Dg and aphi appeal.