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is there a way to participate in greek life without your parents finding out? my parents refuse to let me be in greek life and says that he won't support me financially if i decide to do it so i don't know what to do... I really want to do it but I don't want to be stuck with loans forever. Opinions?

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... Just don't tell them?

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... Just don't tell them?

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it's that simple? haha I don't know how this whole thing works..

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it's that simple? haha I don't know how this whole thing works..

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As long as you pay for it from your own account (after getting loans) and dont have your parents on your Facebook friends list just be discrete and you will be fine.

By: well
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is there any other means of payment that I can do besides card?

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Do people actually do htat? Join a sorority or frat and not tell their parents?

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If you are over 18 theres no reason you can't go to the bank and get a debit card I mean I'm guessing you do have a bank account! as long as they don't know your banking passwords you're fine. And do you have a way to pay for greek life it will cost about 300-400 a quarter. And as the other person said don't have them as friends on Facebook and you could get away with it. I know a few girls in my chapter never told their parents!

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i am working so i am able to pay for it but idk, i feel like if i get a new account, my parents would get a little suspicious haha

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That sucks. I'm so sorry. You're a legal adult, and the fact that your parents are putting limits on your college experience is almost offensive.

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my parents don't really understand the concept of greek life, since they're fobs and they know that i'm involved in this organization but they dont know that i have to pay dues otherwise they'd probably literally kill me. but since i work and i get financial aid i just use that money and they don't know that i spend money on that.. now if your parents understand greek life then idk.. just tell them it's my life i'll do what i want

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yeah my parents definitely understand... idk if i should continue to convince them or just do it secretively..

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Just do it but prove you won't be a financial burden, that it won't negatively affect your GPA and that you won't change in a negative way.

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just do it as in just do it without telling them or convince them?

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