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should i re rush the same frat in the winter?

by: yuh

didn't go to many events but at least 2 of them. lmk guyzz

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If they didn’t invite you personally, you might have been a no bid. Try to see where else you fit in.

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by: yuhOct 5, 2019 1:23:29 PM

what do you mean?

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by: .Oct 5, 2019 1:31:43 PM

Most of the time, when you go to an event at least two times, if you’re cool and seem like a good fit. There would be a bro who texts you and invites you out to invite only events, or to hangout at the house after events. If that didn’t happen, they probably weren’t going to bid you.

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#2  by: Lol   
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Mostly agree with what was said above.

If you made a good enough impression, actives should have got your number and texted you reminding you of the events and inviting you out to the invite only events.

It seems like you didn’t make much of an effort to go to multiple events and build relationships with the bro’s.

You can rush again but be sure to go to every event and actually make an effort to meet and get to know the actives.

If you did that the first two days you were likely a no bid for whatever reason

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by: supOct 5, 2019 6:31:12 PM

some asked for my number after our convos, what's that mean

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by: HmOct 5, 2019 9:14:42 PM

it doesn’t mean much. That’s pretty standard and actives should be getting almost every rushee’s number.

Based on your own experience you should be able to determine if the interaction went well.

There’s a lot that goes into it and without specifics obviously I can’t tell you why you didn’t get a bid.

The only thing I would suggest is to make more of an effort to make relationships the next time around. Going to 2 events in 2 weeks will not make you memorable. Some frats require 100% approval from the chapter before giving you a bid. If people don’t know you they won’t vote for you. Or they won’t have anything good to say about you.

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