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got dropped by all the top chapters on the first day

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Should I quit the recruitment? I only want those top chapters but I got dropped from them(aphi, dg, and tridelta). I’m so disappointed and maybe I’m not pretty or blonde enough for them. I’m thinking about rushing next quarter but I’m afraid they won’t do the recruitment until the next fall.

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I mean they’re not THAT superficial. They just don’t think you’re a great fit for them. It’s probably best if you explore other ones like pi phi, AXO, theta, etc.

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If you're already thinking you're not "good enough " for them, how much so if you actually joined them? Wouldn't you just be comparing yourself the whole time and trying to live up to unrealistic expectations of superficial beauty? You probably should have spent more effort in making real connections than trying to see if you look good enough to fit in. Take the year to do some growing.

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If you didn’t make it through fall you won’t make it in winter/spring where A) they may not rush B) it will be much more selective if they do decide to have rush

Just try the other sororitys. The top 3 clearly felt you weren’t a good fit for whatever reason. Why do you want to join a sorority that doesn’t want you? Change your mindset and enjoy your time in whatever sorority accepts you

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top houses don’t matter once u join. just find where u fit otherwise you’re gonna just be sad in a chapter that doesn’t even want u

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yeah literally if you’re cool and in any sorority most guys will wanna hang out with you

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