this needs to be said
by: Sorry
For guys who are embarrassed to hang out with other sororities that are "lower tier", I will not be hanging out with you any longer. I'm an Alpha Phi by the way (not ashamed of posting something like this at all), and my friend who is a Pi phi just had a guy end things with her because his bros told him to date someone better like a DG or Alpha Phi, and then we're stupid enough to brag about that to some of my friends.
1. Let me just say there are beautiful girls in every chapter. My last house wasn't another "top tier house", and I would have been totally fine with joining any sorority at Uci
2. Demoralizing women and subjecting them to a rank or tier is extremely dehumanizing and I refuse to be a part of it
3. Comments like "I don't date girls in this chapter" make the concept of finding your home, second to forcing yourself into a popular house
4. Odds are any girl in Pi beta phi is probably 10x as attractive as most guys in your fraternity, the fact that you think you can retain these standards after college is a joke, most frat guys here are no where near as hot as the girls they date.
5. Exclusivity is not hot, and if you think it is- you're not really someone I'm going to associate myself with either. So if you say the term "nothin under theta", "SK, AXO, Pi Phi no fly" or "alpha phi DG only" i will without hesitation unfriend you on every social media platform.
#1 by: I agree
I'm In a top chapter too and I know there are girls in all three of those "lower chapters" who are way hotter than me. and still at parties I totally feel like I get special treatment. It's disgusting and not cool. Sorority girls for the most part treat guys as equals we deserve the same. If I liked a guy enough it wouldn't matter if he was a ksig or FIJI.
It's why I stopped hanging out with SAE and Pike all they like to talk about is how exclusive they are. SAE is the worst though, they literally never stop talking about how close they are with Aphi and Dg, and how they don't associate with chapters like Pi phi and SK... Like get over yourself, you guys aren't even hot
Comment#2 by: Can I just say
I don't know who you are, but bravo to this post. I wish more guys (and girls, for that matter) had this mentality. There are some bombshells in all of the lower chapters. All of us are beautiful. It's time we stop judging a girl by her affiliation and get to know her as an actual person.
#5 by: Ands
Screw frats who only have girls for certain sororities as sweetheart because it looks better even when other girls deserve it more. I can't tell you how many times I've seen a sweetheart given to a girl just for her affiliation then she stops hanging out with them anyway.
#6 by: Yes!
So this is a real thing, I'm nearing my soul right now. I'm in a house that everyone considers a bottom house. And it's not even just in here, in real life frats don't serenade us as much as other houses, we get turned down for exchanges constantly, and I asked a guy who said no to formal. I got more attention as a non-Greek. This is really sad, but should I drop out? Like what's even the point.
#7 by: Yes!
So this is a real thing, I'm nearing my soul right now. I'm in a house that everyone considers a bottom house. And it's not even just in here, in real life frats don't serenade us as much as other houses, we get turned down for exchanges constantly, and I asked a guy who said no to formal. I got more attention as a non-Greek. This is really sad, but should I drop out? Like what's even the point.
#9 by: Bump
Because I just was told "you're to hot to be in that chapter". And noticed I'm the only girl they invite to parties from my sorority. Girls are mean, but guys here make us mean. You rarely see girls walking around being like "sorry no FIJI's at formal, sorry Melanie, you're going to have to uninvite your boyfriend". The reason we get so catty is because the nature of Greek systems pit us against eachother
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by: :( May 12, 2016 7:56:15 PM
I am so so sorry that people treat you this way. But at the same time, did you join your chapter to get attention from greek guys, or did you join to get lifelong friends/sisters? Honestly, if greek guys at uci don't want to date you, then screw them anyway. If you're happy otherwise being in your chapter, then maybe you shouldn't worry so much about what shallow guys think of you based on your affiliation anyways!
And I don't mean to be preachy or anything, because TRUST me, I know exactly how this feels (same position), but when I was considering deactivating, I thought about the real reason I joined, and now I'm perfectly happy. I am dating a guy from a "lower tier" fraternity too but who even cares!? He is the best guy I have ever met, ESPECIALLY in a fraternity at uci. We are happy together, and individually, and that's all that matters.
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