phi mu g phi

Who are you to tell people what they're looking for in a sorority? A huge part of sorority life is what frats you are paired with for socials, game days and events you have throughout the year so yeah a lot of PNM's are probably curious about who each sorority usually associates with. Just because it's not an important factor to you, doesn't mean it isn't to other people. And to answer your question, Phi Mu and GPhi do not have homecoming pairs yet. If I were to guess, I would say Phi Mu really doesn't have too many options, they will probably end up having sigma nu or maybe delta chi.

If you are rushing a sorority based on the frats they hang out with, you're going into it for the wrong reasons. Who cares if a sorority hangs out with SAE or Chi Phi if the girls in the sorority all love each other?
Excuse me if I'm wrong, but isn't the whole point of sorority life finding your bridesmaids, not your husbands.
PLUS, the majority of girls going through recruitment are freshman who have very limited experience with fraternities, mainly based off parties they attended this summer or this website.

Again, who are you to tell these people what are the right and wrong reasons to go into rush? Like I get the whole concept of finding a sisterhood but we all know that that's not the only thing that greek life offers. A huge component of greek life is the social aspect and I had tons of guy friends (that I'm very close with) from high school go to certain frats so yeah I was excited at the prospect of joining a sorority that was also close to a frat my friends were in or considering joining. It's not superficial to want to party and socialize with certain frats (frats do it all the time) so why shouldn't girls have the same ability without feeling shamed by people like you. You just because you may feel inadequate in you sorority's social rotation, doesn't mean you have to detract from the strength that social rotation has in determining the right house.

I absolutely love my house's social rotation. I have the best guy friends, who I met through tailgates and socials and exchange dinners. My point is (again), isn't the whole point of joining a sorority about the sisterhood. Or maybe that's my views and that's why I ended up in such a great, close knit sorority. In the end, it doesn't matter who socializes with who, because the PNMs don't really get to pick the sorority, the sorority picks the PNMs. So why try and get their hopes up and get their mind set on a certain sorority because of the boys they socialize with. The entire point of a sorority is sisterhood, not fraternal relations. At least, that's what I think it is. And that's how my sisters think, and that is what leads to the close bonds of friendship and sisterhood within a sorority. If you join a sorority for the boys, or the tier, or the status, then fine- do you. But you aren't going to have the same bonding experience as a girl who is in it for the right reasons. They can join for whichever reason they want, but I hope they expect to get back as much as they give.

How do we join GPhi? Every time I try to go to their website I get an error message..

I'm not concerned about boys in particular, I'm just trying to picture my future sorority experience: I want to have hoco like everyone else and I want to be paired like everyone else. I'm fine with doing work to start up an organization but I want to be able to enjoy the fun that comes with being in a sorority as well. If I wanted to join a group of 10 girls who volunteer once a week and make a tshirt, I'd join a local.

Phi Mu will have a homecoming partner, it's just not apparent right now. Every sorority will ALWAYS have a hoco partner, unlike fraternities. So don't factor homecoming into your decision to join it or not!

Phi tau is with aephi