If I choose a low tier sorority

People on campus aren't so stupid. You will be labeled however you look and act. All anybody cares about here is if you are cute, sweet and fun. Your letters won't make you look different or have a different personality. Are you a top tier girl? Then be one. There are some low tier girls in top sororities. Truth.

If you choose a bottom tier house. The top houses are no better than anyone here. I am a top tier girl by the way . All the houses here a great . I preffed at a top and a bottom.,I could have joined either house. Give the house a chance .

Everyone needs to settle down and look at people as people. Not label them based on letters and ranks. All the top tier girls are insecure and they like to rely on their rank to make themselves feel better. Karma will catch up

No. You will have plenty of socials and if you are involved in organizations outside of just the srat, you'll have connections and social opportunities there You get out what you put in...honestly, anyone that would label you a loser over a house choice is probably not the kind of person you'd want to socialize with anyhow.

honestly just go where it feels right... what would you rather? being in a "lower" sorority (which can change but also why does it matter) where you feel like you fit in and can be yourself, or being facey just to get into a higher tier sorority for status and having to perform every day to be someone you're not

I’m a PNM. I ranked two top tier in my top 5, two mid and one low. Because I liked them best. I struggled when I did my pref because I had a top and felt swayed to go with clout, but I truly liked a (topish-mid and a bottom best). I decided to pref what I felt best and not based on rank. I’ll be happy with either house. I don’t think anyone cares about rank after rush and if they do, they suck as people tbh lol

No, you are a loser for worrying about this. Wtf is wrong with you?