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dropping because of depression

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I'm currently pledging a frat but I've been falling behind on pledge duties and I've also been I feeling like I don't belong. I want to drop but I don't want to reveal the fact that I've been struggling with depression to them. But I don't want to leave a bad impression on anyone if I decide to rush again In the fall. So what should I do?

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If you feel like you don't belong why continue? You don't really owe anyone any explanations, if anything be honest with your big brother. Maybe pledge a different frat next time

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The issue is that if I drop there's a chance I'll lose a lot of friends because a large majority of them are in Greek life and don't really do much with people that aren't in it. Which would probably make my depression worse.

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Talk to them before you do anything stupid.

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Like what?

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Try going to therapy

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Talk to some guys in your pledge class, talk to some brothers that you get along with really well you can trust. Talk to your pledge educator. Don't just drop right away and not say anything. Give it a chance. If they care about you like a fraternity should they will help you out.

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Dealt with a similar situation myself. Go speak CWC. They were super helpful. Look into a low key anti depressant. Changed my life. Wish you the best

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