hi

Exactly. Just because a sorority is considered “top” doesn’t mean they have the best events, best sisterhood, etc. Join a sorority because you connect with the girls & they’re real, not because they have a pretty girl reputation. Phi Mu is great, but so are the “underdog” sororities like Gphib, Axid and Zta. Just because they’re new doesn’t make them any less pretty or social than Pm, Kd, Aoii, or Dphie. If I lined up random girls from each sorority and had you name off who’s in which sorority, you wouldnt be able to because tiers/ranks don’t really exist here no matter how hard people want to believe it does. I tried so hard to think I belonged in a certain top sorority just because the girls are pretty and nice during recruitment, and guess what...They dropped me when I was sure they wanted me and I was ignoring the true sisterhood of a “lower” sorority but I’m so much more happy than I would’ve been in the other. I hear my friends talk about how they want to drop and they hate it because it’s so fake. So choose a sisterhood because you love it. Not because their instagram is perfect, not because your friends are wanting to join it, not just because they’re pretty.