help

I am going through rush right now I really liked ZTA, SK, AXID, and SDT. I really liked the girls in SDT and AXID the most though. I feel really comfortable with them. I chose AXID and SDT for pref. I really dont know which I like more. I think they are pretty much the same but SDT has the better reputation but I feel like the girls in Axid have a better sisterhood. Which Is what I am really looking for. I just need some help with my decision... any thoughts? Im really confused. I have heard things about both of them hazing wise. Does anyone know if anything I have heard is true?