choosing my new home

You listed some of the top houses here that are very competitive during rush (they don't let a lot of people back) but those houses r all good and they all party and have cool girls etc. The downfalls of each r that kappas r known to be wealthy and spoiled (I guess), tri delts r known to be cliquey (I guess), gphis sisterhood isn't great (I guess), alpha phi cares a lot about likes and social media (I guess), and CHI o tries kinda hard(I guess)

Literally just rush and meet the people in those houses

You sound stupid tho

during formal recruitment, you honestly don't really get to choose what house you end up in. The girls know who they're searching for and they always say that it's "mutual selection", but it really isn't tbh. Don't be rude and go in with an open mind, get to know girls in EVERY house, and you'll find your home and friends no matter what house you end up in. The stereotypes don't matter because you'll have your friends. Be yourself and you'll find a good house for you.